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Palms and Ashes

What a Time for a Holy Week ID 174062786 © Frederica Aban | Dreamstime.com It's Holy Week 2020, and I think we can all agree this has been an especially Lenty season of Lent. When I was a kid growing up in my big, Catholic family, Lent was something...

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Contagious

Lessons from the Birds and Bees Photo by Brian McGowan on Unsplash We are hard-wired for panic. Good thing, since a ho-hum reaction to the saber-toothed tiger hiding in the bushes would’ve sent us the way of the dodo bird long ago. Fight or flight jolts of adrenaline...

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Cupcake

Cupcake

Families tend to be littered with characters, most of them ordinary--playing their vital roles and fulfilling their duties in matter-of-fact ways--and a few exceptional, the sprinkles on what might otherwise be a rather vanilla family cupcake. My mother's younger...

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Sure-Footed

Sure-Footed

It's a rare thing in our transient and fickle world to meet with the kind of steadfastness and constancy that spans decades. How could I have known that in my ninth year, when my greatest desire was to spend an afternoon with my nose in a book, that I would find my...

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I Knew You When

I Knew You When

If you're lucky, despite your lack of merit or any earned grace, you may be fortunate enough a handful of times for a kindred spirit to come alongside you and walk a ways. Over three decades ago, due to the single-handed determination and strong will of her mother,...

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Party of Two: Settling in to An Empty Nest

Party of Two: Settling in to An Empty Nest

In the primitive playgrounds of my childhood, my father pushed the hot metal merry-go-round at breakneck speeds, my brother and I shrieking and holding on for dear life. We learned to hold tight to the nearest pole, arms and legs wrapped like baby monkeys around our...

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